Tuesday, July 12, 2005
I don't understand typical men.
I was sleeping on grandma's bed when i heard her scream. Grandpa was "secretly" calling that woman. Grandma was mad. So was he. She was furious that after doing so much, he still wants to call her and yearn to see her. He was pissed because she was controlling him too much. Apparently they are "just friends". Apparently. If you ask me i doubt it's that simple.
I feel ashamed. both for him and her. both are married. still lawfully married. both have kids. why do couples stray? can't they just confide in their partners? where is their commitment. pastures are always greener at the other side. But don't forget after you cross over, where you're standing now will be "the other side".
I don't see what's wrong with grandma. she has a good heart. maybe slightly authoritative but i can see her good intentions. she gives the best to others. i think she's just using anger to cover up her hurt. take for instance she insisted i just left the plates there. i really would have helped her wash that pile if my hand wasn't wrapped up.
She's a good wife. raising and disciplining the kids, doing all the housework, cooking, marketing. only thing. she's not romantic. some people are just like that isn't it? i'm worried for her. she seemed to be mumbling to herself after the quarrel. i wish i weren't there. now i dunno whether to keep it to myself or what.
please people. do not touch married people. ok i revise that. do not touch attached/married people. and attached/married ones, please don't step on two boats with your tiny feet. you'll end up falling into the water when one moves apart. it just takes one to move apart. and trust me. nowadays no two boats will move in the same direction in this kind of situation.
When a woman strays, everyone points fingers at her. when a man strays, it's "in his nature". What rubbish.
I repeat. I don't understand men. I revise that. I don't understand typical men.
But I believe some are not typical. Thank God.
Just The Girl @
7:49 PM
