Saturday, June 05, 2010
Here are some thoughts I was analysing during jogging yesterday.
I couldnt decide which is my first love, running or karate.
Then I linked it to men having second wives or mistresses. Let me analyse it for you.
How did that happen? having 2 loves.
1)some people, like me, chanced upon it(karate), tried it out, took it seriously and realised that they liked it.
2)some people found the first love monotonous/boring after awhile, and started looking for the second - the second need not be very interesting or different from the first, but its at least something new. In fact, they can be dangerously similar.
3)the second love has sth which the first love lacks(in the case of karate, its the adrenaline rush), which the person feels its important or exciting once in awhile.
No matter what the reason, there are always times we feel we love the second one better, but the good first one is always innate, there to stay.
No matter the reason, both requires lotsa time and effort, and once you decide to have a second love, the attention is split. There is no longer such thing as 100% so dont bullshit and say you can give 100% to either of the loves anymore.
As someone told me once: the new may be interesting but the old is gold.
Another told me: Mindy, all men are not decent.
I think both statements are true.
Just The Girl @
8:31 AM
